The Truth Hurts

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Ephesians 4:13-16 (KJV)
¹³ Till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ:
¹⁴ That we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive;
¹⁵ But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ:
¹⁶ From whom the whole body fitly joined together and compacted by that which every joint supplieth, according to the effectual working in the measure of every part, maketh increase of the body unto the edifying of itself in love.

A very long time ago, I had a co-worker who would say cruel and unkind things to me and others. This person used the rationale that they were merely "telling the truth." They were speaking what they considered to be the truth, but it was definitely not spoken with love.

We are encouraged in His Word to emulate Christ Jesus in our actions, our speech, and our lives. He always spoke the truth with meekness and mercy liberally sprinkled in. Carrying out this action is evidence of our maturing faith.

Being an assertive Christian is helpful and positive. Being overbearing isn't Christian at all, it's offensive. If you avoid every confrontation, you may be seen as weak and ineffective. Make sure the truth you speak is correct and love-driven.

Go ahead...speak the truth. But speak it with love.

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Notable Quote:

"We speak God's truth because of His love and in a way that clearly and unapologetically communicates both truth and love."--GotQuestions.org